Yeah, I had to explain to the wife that paddle shifting while turning the wheel is not only difficult but dangerous as well, that she had to shift to the 'stick' during the brief period of executing a turn.
Took her exactly 2 minutes to master it. And I took to the shifting in the first 25 miles of driving, so give the beast a chance. As gsteetcomic says: It grows on you.
Personally, I find the transmission design an engineering art form. I can't wait to perform my first clutch plate replacement, (many mile down the road, eh?)