Thanks Steven, PERFECT. Exactly what I needed. I did have a violet wire you didn't list, but it found a home in #64.
Ooo, I see you were editing your list as I was wiring up, and I guessed correctly. Just to keep everyone in the loop, here's the list for the small ECU connector.
53 [empty]
54 Black/Green
55 Brown/White
56 Brown/Yellow
57 Blue/Red
58 Brown
59 Brown
60 Blue/Brown
61 [empty]
62 Brown/Pink
63 Brown/White
64 Violet
65 Black/Yellow
66 Red/Grey
67 Violet/Grey
68 Pink
69 [empty]
70 [empty]
71 Green
72 Violet/White
73 Red/Grey
74 Violet/Green
75 Violet/Yellow
76 [empty]
77 [empty]
78 Green/White
79 [empty]
80 Red