Ok, trying to add some more info.
59,000km on the car approx
I think we got the car at the end of september so it has definitely been driven in temperatures between 20-30 C and was stalling then as well
RPM's I can't remember off the top of my head, but seemed low to me, I think it was right around 1000rpm, maybe slightly under or over, really can't remember and don't have the car with me to check at the moment. What should it be at, I feel like it should be more like 1500rpm but I could be wrong.
I have no problem trying to lube the clutch actuator, where would I find this? hah. Should I think about dumping the transmission fluid for some new stuff? And is that something I can do easily enough by myself?
Haven't really had a good chance to search all over the car, ie engine. Can you get to engine without raising the car up?
Thanks for all the help, I feel like we are getting somewhere, hopefully this added info helps people figure this out!