The trans actually shifts better if you keep your throttle position steady throughout the shifting process. During the shift the computer is controlling the engine speed, clutch action and transmission. The controls available to the driver, the throttle pedel, and shift lever/paddles are connected to the engine/transmission by wires via the computer (ECU).
The shifts seem painfully slow because there is a conventional dry plate friction clutch that must be released before and engaged after the actual shift. A conventional automatic transmission has a torque converter, fluid drive connection, instead of a clutch.
The smart clutch is operated by an electric motor driven worm gear actuater and the trans is shifted by cam followers in groves cut in an electric motor driven drum.
Again the ECU controls all of these actions and the only thing the driver can control in the manual mode is when this takes place and that is only if he does it within the operating parameters programed into the ECU.