I received a phone call from my salesman. And, my smart arrive almost 6 weeks to the day from the point that it was shipped. The key is getting the VIN # (I received mine approximately two weeks after I received my phone call). Once you get that, you can ask your dealer for a copy of your R11 Specific Unit Details Report. That will give you among other things, the month your car was manufactured, the shipping status (shipped or distributor stock), the ETA (far more accurate than the DDE) and your smart's configuration/price. This is what I relied upon. Also, seeing that you're on the east coast, you should be able to track your car during shipping as long as you have your VIN#.
All regions and all dealers have different approaches for notifying its customers. But, the R11 is a smart form that should be used by all. It took my dealer about 30 seconds to pull my R11 up on the computer.
Good luck and hang in there. These last couple of months are tough, but the car is worth every second!
