Well guys, I don't want to alarm you but there isn't much about this car that is like what you are driving now. Most of the things to get the car going you are probably already doing without thinking. The biggest difference is the lack of a clutch pedal. Not really a big deal, probably isn't enough room for one anyway. If you want to play like you are shifting go ahead and push the stick. It will make you feel better. Just remember that the computer is doing everything for you, you are just telling it when. Even us old guys can figure it out. After you do it a bit you will find that it really is kind of fun.