Dealerships..
Wow, that's unusual you got a lukewarm reception, every time I have gone into the San Francisco Benz / Smart Center they have treated me excellent and seemed enthusiastic about the cars. It is true that the sales teams don't always know everything the true enthusiasts do, but in this case I found a genuine interest from their staff, and their bookmarks were filled with the same smart websites that I frequent ** I look forward to picking up my car from these friendly, helpful people.
I haven't checked out the SJ dealership since it became 'official' but I called awhile back to get on their waiting list and they seemed happy if not perky in general
Niello has good people as well, and they are always putting on customer appreciation parties of some sort, that is going to be one fun place for Sacramento people.
I wonder how San Rafael will do? North Bay people will be pleased for sure, even though it isn't, well, more North.
One thing I found across all dealerships was the absolute lack of pretentiousness of the Benz people. Having dealt with certain BMW owners and dealers the past 4 years, that is a relief!