Without the lights, I cannot say what the two pair of wires are on the left fog light but I have heard Evilution say Brown is ground. Hook them up outside the car (unmounted) and test the operation. I am guessing the extra pair of wires on the left could be for a "Fog lights on" monitor for the SRM or ECU. It could also be just a lighted indicator run. Use an ohmmeter to measure between the yellow/grey and pruple wire. If my guess is right they should be internally connected in the lamp housing. If that is the case, when wired up to a voltage source, the purple wire will become a floating hot lead. You now have the choice of lighting the switch when the fogs are on or securing the purple and brown pair so they do not short to ground. (Lots of tape to make water tight)!! Hope this helps.

After you do this, we'll worry about wiring the switch to the relay, relay to the lights.